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  1. i.Prayer & Worship

    Is It Wrong to Pray Against Your Enemies? What the Imprecatory Psalms Teach

    The Psalms do ask God to judge enemies. What those cursing prayers mean, how Jesus changes them, and how to pray honestly when someone has hurt you.

  2. ii.Faith Questions

    Are Ouija Boards Harmless? What Christians Should Know

    Most of what happens on a Ouija board has a simple psychological explanation. Scripture's warning is about what the board is for. A calm, biblical answer.

  3. iii.Faith Questions

    Should Christians Watch Horror Movies? A Practical Way to Decide

    Scripture never mentions horror films, but it says plenty about fear, the occult and what we feed our minds. Five honest questions to help you decide.

  4. iv.Faith Questions

    Should Christians Celebrate Halloween? Start With All Saints' Day

    Scripture never mentions Halloween. Here is the history of All Hallows' Eve, Reformation Day and All Saints, and how Christian families can decide well.

  5. v.Lifestyle

    How a Simple Morning Routine Transformed My Faith

    I used to scroll my phone for twenty minutes before getting out of bed. Then one Monday I accidentally opened my Bible app first. That small accident changed my entire year.

  6. vi.Faith & Rest

    Rest Is Not Laziness: What the Sabbath Taught Me About Productivity

    My therapist told me to rest more. My pastor told me to rest more. I ignored both of them for two years. Then I burned out so completely that I had no choice but to stop — and what I found in the stillness shocked me.

  7. vii.Community

    When Church People Disappoint You

    The elder who I most respected said something cruel about my family at a leadership meeting. I found out through a mutual friend. That was three years ago. Here's what happened next.

  8. viii.Relationships

    Marriage After Kids: Keeping Love Alive When You Are Exhausted

    Our first year with a newborn nearly wrecked us. We had three conversations a day: Have you eaten? Did he nap? Where is the Tylenol? Then our pastor said something at a conference that stopped us cold.

  9. ix.Stewardship

    Generosity Changes You More Than It Changes Anyone Else

    I started tithing at thirty-two, mostly out of obligation. I kept expecting to feel broke. Instead, I felt free. It took me years to understand why.

  10. x.Relationships

    Praying for a Spouse Who Doesn't Share Your Faith

    My husband came to faith seven years after I did. Those seven years were the most spiritually stretching of my life — and not in ways I expected.

  11. xi.Mental Health

    Being a Christian With Anxiety: What I Wish the Church Would Say

    For years I thought my anxiety was a faith problem. If I just prayed more, trusted more, memorized more Scripture, it would lift. It didn't. And the shame of that silence nearly cost me everything.

  12. xii.Bible Life

    How to Read the Bible When It Feels Like a Textbook

    I hit a wall around year three of daily Bible reading. The words felt familiar but flat. Like re-reading a novel you've memorized — technically present but no longer surprising. Then a seminary professor told me one thing that changed everything.

  13. xiii.Lifestyle

    Hospitality Is Not About Your House. It's About Your Heart.

    My friend hosts dinner parties in a 600-square-foot apartment with mismatched dishes and one working burner. They are the best dinner parties I've ever attended. I finally asked her secret.

  14. xiv.Faith & Rest

    Grief and the Resurrection: What Easter Means When You Are Mourning

    My mother died eleven days before Easter. That year, the resurrection wasn't a doctrine to me — it was a rope I was holding with both hands over a very long drop.

  15. xv.Family

    Raising Kids With Faith in a World That Pushes Back

    My ten-year-old came home from school and announced that his friend said Christians are dumb. I wanted to fix it immediately. Then I realized fixing it wasn't my job — equipping him was.

  16. xvi.Lifestyle

    Your Phone and Your Soul: Finding Balance in the Digital Age

    I tracked my screen time for one week before trying to change it. The number was seven hours and twenty-two minutes per day. I thought I used my phone a lot. I had no idea.

  17. xvii.Purpose

    Finding Your Calling When God Seems Quiet

    I spent three years waiting for a burning-bush moment to tell me what to do with my life. It never came. What came instead was slower and more reliable.

  18. xviii.Faith & Rest

    The Grief That Comes Before Change: Understanding Godly Sorrow

    There is a kind of guilt that beats you down and a kind of sorrow that actually changes you. I confused the two for years, which is part of why I kept repeating the same mistakes.

  19. xix.Community

    Why Deep Christian Friendship Is So Hard to Find (And How to Build It)

    I have a lot of acquaintances at church. Friends — the kind who know the real stuff and show up anyway — those have been harder to find than I expected.

  20. xx.Faith & Rest

    The Spiritual Practice of Waiting: What Advent Teaches All Year

    I am a terrible waiter. In every sense of the word. I hate waiting in lines, I hate waiting for results, and I am not skilled at the spiritual practice of waiting on God. Advent ruined me, in the best way.

  21. xxi.Prayer & Worship

    The Hardest Prayer: 'Your Will, Not Mine'

    I prayed 'your will be done' for years without meaning it. I meant 'your will, as long as it aligns with my plan.' Then I faced a situation where my plan was completely unavailable, and I had to find out what I actually believed.

  22. xxii.Stewardship

    Enough: Learning Contentment in a Culture of More

    I upgraded my car the same week I told my daughter we couldn't afford her school trip. That contradiction sat in my chest like a stone for months. It was the beginning of a reckoning.

  23. xxiii.Prayer & Worship

    When Prayer Feels Like Talking to the Ceiling

    There was a six-month stretch where prayer felt completely one-directional. I talked. Nothing came back. Not silence exactly — more like static. I kept going anyway, and I want to tell you why.

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